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Your story—whether it's about you, the people you know, or an entire community—has the potential to motivate others with real-life tales of how the Y not only promises, but also delivers positive change. Through your unique and special voice, the Y can share your story to bring people together to invest in our kids, our health, and our neighbors. If a story about the Y has meaning for you and you're willing to tell it, then we believe it's worth hearing. The only thing more important than the words you have to say is the untold lives your story touches. Please email us your story to help spread the word to marketing@rmymca.org

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Mac Lord “I have been involved with the Y for a long time and have seen first hand the impact the Y has on people, which is why I wanted to contribute to the Y in some way.” Mac chose to do his Eagle Scout project here at the Y by adding something new and fun to the playground for children. He decided it would be great to add a Gaga Pit for children to play on when they are outside. The game of Gaga relates to the Y’s cause to strengthen community. It allows anyone to play at any skill level and the games are very short giving everyone a chance to play. He thought that building a Gaga Pit would allow all children at the Y the opportunity to feel included. “That is how I feel about the Y, having swum here for nine years, working here, and being apart of the Togetherhood Committee; I am able to see that the Y is very inclusive and it provides an opportunity for everyone.” After raising money for four months and building the Gaga Pit over the course of a month, Mac is happy that he is able to see the impact this project has made on the children. “I love being able to walk by and see different children playing together on the pit.”

Lynne  Jaffe has been a member of the Y for several years, with the original goal of coming with her family to work out. For a while, Lynne would come to the Y with her family and walk around the track while her family used the exercise equipment. She recently decided to be more productive and improve her health and fitness goals. Deciding to try out several group classes, Lynne found that the morning Yoga class and the Low Impact Cardio Fusion class were great classes for her. She says she really enjoys both classes and the instructors make them even better. “I enjoy the Yoga class as Kathleen Loucks guides you through the moves and provides alternative ways of doing the exercises for those who need it and she makes the class very fun. Sharon Simons makes the Low Impact Cardio Fusion class very fun by changing things from class to class to prevent boredom!” Lynne loves both classes, but what she enjoys most is being able to have fun with other members and the welcoming feeling the Y has. “In neither class does anyone care what you look like or how fit or unfit you are, it is very non-judgemental. The welcoming feeling from these classes keeps me motivated to come to class and the motivation even continues to my job and other areas of my life! I only wish I would have started attending these classes sooner!”

Sherron Patterson has been a member of the Y for around three years. She originally joined the Y because she was looking for a place where she could exercise and know that her children were in a safe place. The Y offers so much for her children to do while she works towards her health goals. “When my oldest daughter is in gymnastics and I am working out, my youngest is able to go to child watch.” After joining, Sherron started to participate in various exercise classes, which made exercising easier for her. “Once I became a member, I started participating in things like Zumba and spin class which were great!” She says the Y has been there for her when she needed help. “I became a single mother of two girls and I wanted them to be able to participate in different sports. I applied for financial assistance and was approved, which helped me get my oldest daughter in gymnastics, afterschool, and summer camp while I was at work. Receiving financial assistance helps to alleviate some of the stress and financial burdens that I would otherwise face without it.” The Y has become a place that Sherron’s family truly enjoys coming to. “I think at the Y, the people listen to what members and community members are interested in and they try to make it available. The staff is amazing; everyone here is nice and is willing to help out those who need it which is what keeps us coming back!”

Quantica Hines has been a member of the Y for last two years. Since joining, the Y has made a tremendous impact in her and her son’s lives. She has gained a sense of working as a team with other members and being a part of something bigger than herself. She says “I learned how to swim at the Y and about nature, which I believe positively affected my development.” Quantica says she is thankful for what this organization represents. “I am very grateful for everything and everyone behind the scenes at the Y who make it all possible.” During the time that Quantica has been a member of the Y, she has been able to reach many goals that she set for herself including quitting smoking, pushing herself to be better every day, having a more positive attitude, and obtaining a better job. “There is no way to ever pay back what the YMCA has done for me and my son in these trying times."  

Daphne Trevathan has been a member of the Harrison Family YMCA for 5 years with the original goal of wanting to have more options for a healthier lifestyle. Since joining the Y, Daphne says she feels a sense of community whenever she comes. “I can always be social when I come here and I can always find people that I know!” She loves coming to the Y and is grateful for the financial assistance she receives. “With my current situation, having help financially allows me the ability to pay my student loans, as well as stay healthy and engaged in the community, without being stressed.” Daphne is a part of the Togetherhood® Volunteer Program, which she says has helped her become more of aware of the Y’s cause. “It opened my eyes to the initiatives the Y is trying to meet and how much this organization impacts people in the community. My favorite part about being involved in Togetherhood® is being able to see ideas turn to fruition, such as projects like Babies and Blankets.” Along with having opportunities to be involved in the community, Daphne says “The atmosphere is what keeps me here. I have built stronger relationships with people through Togetherhood®!”

Bill Craig“November of 2015, I had a stroke, which left me totally paralyzed on the left side. I ended up going to rehab and had to use a wheelchair. I finally got to the point where I could use a walker. This was right around the time that our Y was launching the post-rehab program. This was a no-brainer for me. It was the perfect time. So, I made that decision and was the very first client of this brand new program. I worked with Sharon Simons, and she started me out lightly. I wasn’t sure what to expect, but with progression, I got to the point where I was walking with just a cane. Post-rehab is not like regular therapy. It is individualized to you and your own situations. I love to credit Sharon for the work she has done. She is quick to identify limitations and mental capabilities and will communicate with your doctor when needed. This program most definitely changed my life and it is not a threat to physical therapy. It is simply a next step and progression. One can’t be overly optimistic, but this program will get you back to 95%! I will continue to go out and share my testimony with others because I want others’ lives to be changed as mine was.”

Catherine Ziencik- "Prior to my son being born, I exercised regularly. Exercising was "my time" to decompress after a long day at work. Exercising always makes me feel better about myself. Toward the middle of my pregnancy, walking around my block was the only exercise I was getting. After my son was born, I focused all of my attention on his needs. As a new mom, I wasn't focused on myself or ensuring I had any "me time". When my son was 9 months old, I felt I had a better grasp on motherhood and began looking for an exercise center that offered a reputable and reasonably priced childcare. I wanted to start exercising again and lose my baby weight while feeling comfortable with leaving my son with trustworthy and caring staff. I called, priced, and visited multiple facilities, and the YMCA was the only exercise facility that met all of my standards. Upon my first visit to the YMCA, I saw the childcare teacher that I was practically raised by when I was a child! That made me feel right at home. My son, Uriah, loves child watch and does not even cry when I leave. This gives me the peace of mind that I need. As a new mother and working professional, I am thankful to be a member of the YMCA where my physical health and the well-being of my child comes first."

Stephanie Pridgen- "As a missionary, I would have to say that I am pretty good at taking care of others, but sometimes not so good at taking care of myself. I was living overseas in Ukraine a few years ago and unfortunately, my health is what brought me home. I was unhealthy and also had a herniated disk in my neck, which caused unimaginable pain. Once I made it back home to Rocky Mount, I told myself that things had to change. I became a part of a small gym in Wilson that had a great family feel, but ended up closing. I joined the Y and truly found my second family again. I look around and love the vision and heart around the Y. It has a focus on community and the family feel that I want and need to keep me motivated. I have also enjoyed the swim lessons and the classes. Not only are you becoming healthy and learning important life skills, you are meeting new people and socializing as well. My main goal is to be healthy and strong enough to return to the field, which I am now and the Y has been a huge part of getting me to that point. I am working on returning to live and serve in Ukraine and have just recently become a certified Revelation Wellness Instructor. This will allow me to lead others in fitness classes when I return overseas. I love having the Y as a place to work out, be happy, meet people, and be encouraged by all of the smiles. It is home."

Janelle Sharpe is an amazing volunteer for us here at the Y. Janelle went to the Y in our afterschool program as a child, “which was a longgg time ago, she tells us.” She is 25 years old and graduated high school from Rocky Mount Preparatory School and graduated college from Nash Community College. She now loves to design fashion and is also volunteering in our Afterschool and Summer Camp programs. “I have been coming to the Y since I was a kid and love working with other kids, especially the older ones. I help them with homework and love to play with them. The Y is different than other places to me. My whole family loves the Y.” Janelle also told us that she made tons of new friends this Summer, as she helped our Camp Counselors. Janelle loves to attend our Adap-tive Swimming Championships and Special Needs Easter Egg Hunts, because, “they are fun!” We are so happy to have Janelle as someone who has benefited from our youth programming and grown into an amazing adult, back in the Y to serve as a volunteer. Thanks Janelle!

 

Susan Clegg- "I competed the Y's very 1st Color Run and was thrilled by how their Wellness Coordinator was there the whole time cheering us along the way! My story dates back to 1977 when I was diagnosed with cancer. I have also lost everyone in my family to cancer and have been lucky to make it to 60. I worked hard throughout those years to be healthy and thankfully became cancer free in 1991. In1994 I decided to participate in a Walk/Run in Boston, to raise money for the Dana Farber cancer institute, in honor of my Dad. It was my parent's wedding anniversary, and the event lasted for seven and a half hours! That is when I found my love for walking and running. When I first moved to the area, I had gotten away from exercise and put weight on, just due to the busyness of life and not being able to find time for exercise. So, I started going to another gym, which was nice, but then they closed. I finally found the YMCA and ended up losing 30 lbs and 17 inches! I have an arthritic left knee and bone spurs, so the Doctor told me that I shouldn't run because it will ruin my knee, but that I could continue my walking, staying cautious of my knee and overall health. Losing the 30 lbs has now taken weight off of my knee and my Doctor actually congratulates me! The Y is the perfect place because everyone is always friendly and welcoming, which gives you a great atmosphere to stay motivated. The staff also recognize when others leave or when you don't see them for a while. They take the time to make sure you are doing okay. The Y is a place where you will see young and old, people walking and people on walkers, kids playing, a variety of different types of people, as well as staff smiling. It is an atmosphere that makes you want to keep coming."

Larry Dickens- A part of the YMCA’s Cause is to strengthen our community, by helping to further those in need. That is what Mr. Dickens also reiterated about our YMCA. “I can’t say enough about the Y. I could almost cry like a baby when I talk about what it has done for my son, and my family. You all are a life-saver.” Mr. Dickens has four children, two daughters and two sons, one of which is diagnosed with autism and ADHD. “I have struggled with my own heart health problems, and added stress can only make it worse. Sometimes the exertion I am required to take with my son, can lead to that extra stress, which in turn may affect my health. I prayed for a while for some sort of help in finding a place for my son that could also give me the break I need for my health. After praying for a while, I finally found out about the Y and it’s Summer Camp Program. The Y offered me assistance in placing my son in camp, and I was so thankful. The camp program allowed him to thrive. He was able to be with other peers and participate in activities that he normally would not be able to. He loves the swimming pool, and field trips were the most important thing to him. I want to make sure I am giving back to the Y, because of how much they gave to me.”

Doug Slater- "I have been swimming and coming to the YMCA since I was about 8 years old. I first joined the Y swim team at 10. Every year we would sell thin mints to raise money for something, I am not even sure what. But we sold tons of them. Except for a break for university and med school/training, I have been a member most of my life. I am second longest member in our family to my dad, who has been a Y member for 79 years and still swims every day at Kerr Y in Raleigh at the age of 89. I still swim with him some Saturday mornings. In all those years, I have never heard a YMCA staff member make a negative comment about anything. I most love the positive attitude of the staff and members- this is the main thing that keeps me coming; such a great rinse cycle in my busy days. I swim at a lof of Y's in NC, but the Harrison Family YMCA is the best I have used, and I am grateful that our Y is such a good facility with such good people. Thank You."

Dylan Johnson- “Monday, May 8th made 1 year for me on my journey of health. Last year on this day, I woke up, and I cried. I’ve always been active, but still have dealt with weight issues my whole life. I realized on this day that I needed to set an example and become the person I knew I could and wanted to be. I have been coming to the Y since I was a little kid; since it was downtown if that tells you anything! So, the Y has always been a second home to me. I knew that was a place where I could work towards being healthy in a motivating and welcoming atmosphere. The first 4 months, I lost 10lbs! There were days I wanted to give up, but I pushed myself. I give credit to Haley, Glenda, Alexis, Jaclyn, Rachel and Stephanie for always making my day! If I have had a bad day, they always make me smile and feel like a part of this organization. They have helped with my journey. I want to encourage anyone no matter what age or struggle to keep going and stick with it! I am now down 82lbs since that morning on May 8th, 2016. Thank you to everyone who has helped me along the way, and to the Y for being the family-oriented, safe, and secure place for me.”

Brenda's Story- Brenda Yde hasn’t always had the easiest of lives. She was awarded the guardian of her three grandchildren, Thomas, Sierra, and Alex due to the deprivation and uncertainty that they were experiencing the early part of their lives. She is raising them with the help of her husband, who is 83, disabled and unable to work. Brenda also lost her job due to breast cancer a couple years ago. As anyone can imagine, these circumstances can make life tough. Her situations have made it a struggle to stay healthy and provide the best care possible for her grandchildren. But Brenda doesn’t give up. She found the Y and explained her situation to them. Thomas and Sierra were already enrolled in previous Summer camps and after school care with the Y. The Department of Social Services was funding their access until Brenda was awarded guardianship. Due to the financial burdens and situations in their lives, the Y was able to offer financial assistance for both grandchildren to continue attending after school care, thanks to funds raised by the Y’s Annual Campaign. Thankfully, she along with her husband, were both eligible for the Silver Sneakers program through insurance benefits and were able to use the Y for membership to become healthier for themselves and their family. Brenda credits and thanks the Y every day for helping her have the strength to get her health back on track and providing an outlet for every day socialization. She says that she only made it through her medical issues with the assistance and support of the Y. “Sierra and Thomas have both flourished at the Y because of the caring, nurturing and exceptional staff. It is a safe place for them after school, providing not only transportation to the Y, but swimming, homework time, crafts and programs that are helping them develop into productive and cared for children. We love them and provide for them at home, but the Y loves them and provides for them through their programs and staff. I am so grateful that the Y was there for them and my family during this difficult time. Knowing they were at the Y gave me the peace of mind to get through this. I could not have made it without that," says Brenda.

Leslie & Emmanuel Perkins- "The Y made a change for me. My son and I fell in love with the the Y's Holiday Camp last December. After losing my mom last February, I didn't have anyone to watch him for me while school was out for Christmas and while I worked. I signed him up and Ms. Vanessa ensured me that he would be fine and he definitely was! We both enjoyed it so much that we came back for Summer Camp 2014. It is a joy to know that your child is in good hands with such caring staff. Thanks for all you all do, you are appreciated."

Allen Dickens-"Because of my exercise and education at the Y, I learned to notice when something was not going right with my body. I began noticing problems last December and to make a long story short, ended up having to go through surgery for an aortic valve replacement.  This became very serious and I found a lot of support through people here at the Y. During my surgery, I missed the Y so much, more than anything else because losing weight, becoming a healthier person and getting involved with the community of people here is my life and what really makes me happy. I survived this because I worked out and noticed abnormal symptoms with my body and knew I had to do something. I can't say enough about how different and grateful I feel from this life-changing experience and the support of the Y."

Lesta Martin-“In 2004, my husband and I moved to the Rocky Mount area to be closer to our family. Through the years, I had not been paying much attention to my diet, I was a HUGE meat eater and I began gaining weight. Well, I found the Y and started getting into water aerobics! I met many new friends and the socialization kept me motivated! The group of friends I have met in water aerobics meet together for lunch once a week, which is an amazing benefit of the Y- you will always meet new friends. To me, the social is just as important as the physical aspects of your health. I began losing weight at that time but was then hit with devastating news- I was diagnosed with breast cancer. My heart dropped, but I prayed on it. I decided I did not want to go through chemotherapy and I wanted to do it the natural way. So, I went to a plant based diet and excercised at least 5 times a week. I would use the treadmill, Silver Sneakers classes and line dancing classes. Because of this, I fought my cancer and the doctors were astonished! I have also always been on blood pressure medication with 3 medications. I have lost 30 lbs in all and am now down to only 1 medication! I appreciate the Y, the instructors and friends I have met here for helping me push through that time in my life and help me become healthier.”

Ann Sykes“I moved to Rocky Mount from New Jersey 10 years ago to be closer to my father. I worked at a law firm and began working out at another gym, but needed something more. At the time, I had high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and was diagnosed as prediabetic. I was on so much medication, which was just making things worse. The staff at the Y and the friends I have made here helped me to become healthier. I changed my diet and started exercising more. Staff told me to work on my upper body because I had issues with my legs. Through the increased exercise and social interactions, my cholesterol went from 235 to 187 in a year! I am a people person and believe that we can all learn from each other. I encourage members to come with their families, check on friends when they don’t show up for a couple days, and help each other move in life. I have had a great life with a great career, so moving people is my next goal in life. That is why I want my story shared.”

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